What a year! We did a lot of really awesome things this year and made some big life changes. There were some low points but some really awesome things too!
Here is a recap!
January: we took a day trip to the beach
February: Madi required staples in her head on Ricky's birthday for running in the house, falling and hitting our old desk.
March: Ricky decided to go back to school!
Gracie had surgery to repair two hernias.
April: We took the kids to San Antonio to Sea World
I ruptured my disc in my back
We went to Old MacDonald Farm
Brody was hospitalized for still unknown GI issues
May: The kids and I attended a spring show (dance drill team)
Ricky and I went to a baseball game
We decided to not have cable television!
June: We went back to San Antonio
Ricky's first semester at school started
June marked 10 years of mine and Ricky's journey
We got really good news about Brody's vision improving a lot!
July: The kids turned THREE!!!
Our beloved Boxer, Hoss died suddenly
We went to the circus
August: We took the kids to see Planes, their first movie at the theater
Brody and Gracie started public school
Madi started gymnastics
I found out I needed back surgery
Ricky and I started school
We made a long weekend trip to Austin
I got my new Tahoe!
Ricky and I went to see Wicked
September: We found out we had a wee little one on the way!
We decided to break up with therapies... still so glad we did
October: I saw the baby for the first time and heard "it's" heartbeat
We visited Old MacDonald Farm again
We had Halloween at a church festival- best Halloween yet
November: I had surgery to help have a full term pregnancy
Ricky and I celebrated 8 years of marriage
We found Harper (our Boxer) a new wonderful home
We took the kids to Disney on Ice
We took the kids to see Frozen their second movie at a theater
We took Brody and Gracie out of school (BEST choice ever)
We went to Santa's Wonderland and it was AWESOME!
December: We found out we are having a GIRL!!
We went to Galveston to see the lights at Moody Gardens but had to leave early because of sickness
I got the flu and got to spend the night at the hospital
Brody and Gracie got to spend two days in the hospital
Christmas was wonderful
Ricky and I did great in school
We decided to put our house on the market
I think God has a great sense of humor. It was just the beginning of September around my birthday when I was thinking of goals I wanted to accomplish in the next 3 years before the big 30. I mentioned that we needed to decided if we wanted anymore children because I wouldn't have any after age 30. Little did we know that just 2 weeks later we'd find out we were having another little baby! That's life! You just roll with it and appreciate all the blessings and lessons along the way. We are so excited about 2014 and cannot wait until May to meet Truette Hope!
Happy New Year!
Krista
Monday, December 30, 2013
Friday, December 27, 2013
"Until we have seen someone's darkness we don't really know who they are. Until we have forgiven someone's darkness, we don't really know what love is." -Marianne Williamson
Christmas was awesome with the kids. They were so excited and appreciative of everything thing they received. We opened gifts Christmas Eve afternoon. I can never wait! Santa came the next morning and we were up around 4:30am. Madi got an art easel, Brody got a basketball goal, and Gracie got a Little Mermaid vanity set. Ricky got me a gift certificate to my favorite spa and some pajamas. He got some gun he wanted, cologne and a hat.
We didn't go to Dallas. We canceled that trip when all the sickness hit. So glad we did! We've been hanging out around the house for a couple days. It's been great to not go a single place and nap!! I'm all about naps these days- for me! Ricky had to go back to work today but I believe is off this weekend. We still need to have Christmas with my brother and his family.
We have a busy month ahead with getting the house ready to put on the market, putting it on the market, figuring out mine and Ricky's school, finding another place to live, and regular life stuff. The only thing we have for Truette is a sheet! I'm half way through the pregnancy and she will be here before we know it so we've got to get it together. Just seems kind of pointless with knowing we are moving. Anyway, much to be thankful for. Update soon.
KP
We didn't go to Dallas. We canceled that trip when all the sickness hit. So glad we did! We've been hanging out around the house for a couple days. It's been great to not go a single place and nap!! I'm all about naps these days- for me! Ricky had to go back to work today but I believe is off this weekend. We still need to have Christmas with my brother and his family.
We have a busy month ahead with getting the house ready to put on the market, putting it on the market, figuring out mine and Ricky's school, finding another place to live, and regular life stuff. The only thing we have for Truette is a sheet! I'm half way through the pregnancy and she will be here before we know it so we've got to get it together. Just seems kind of pointless with knowing we are moving. Anyway, much to be thankful for. Update soon.
KP
Sunday, December 22, 2013
updates
Brody and Gracie were admitted into the hospital Friday night. They were released today (Sunday) around lunch. They did NOT have the flu but some type of virus that wiped them out. They were very critical Friday night when they arrived. Brody's blood sugar was in the 20's and Gracie's was in the 40's. That is dangerously low. Gracie was not responsive for a short period of time- it was a terrifying experience. They pushed 100cc of sugar water type IV fluids of course there is a name but I don't know what the fluids were called. They couldn't start the fluids they really needed until blood sugar came up. Anyway, it was a really long night in the ER getting them both stable. Friday was Ricky's first day back to work in a week due to us being so sick with the flu and he was in charge so couldn't leave. It's probably best he wasn't because it's very hard for him to see them in a critical state. Anyway, he got to us around 1am and we were put into a room around 2am. Luckily my brother met me at the ER to get Madi. She stayed two nights and had the time of her life. She has really suffered this past week since she is the only one that didn't get sick.
Anyway, we are all on the mend around here. I'm so thankful we are all home and can be together for Christmas. It crossed my mind several times at how lucky I am to have these kids and that I get to have them home with me for Christmas. I think about all the moms that don't have that luxury. This is just a little bump in the road and I'm thankful for that.
We got several Christmas cards this year. Actually more than we usually do. We thank everyone for thinking of our family this season. Aunt Judi & Uncle Daryl, Aunt Cathy & Uncle James, Granny & Big Dad: Thank you all for sending the kids money for Christmas. Your generosity really touches the heart. We love yall much.
Merry Christmas!
The Patton Family
Baby Truette's appointment was great Friday. She is a little bit small but the doctor isn't worried. She is developing and growing on track. She has become very active the past couple weeks and it is an ease to my mind every move I feel. I did ask if I could have her on May 30th (my Dad and Pop's birthday) but she doesn't think I can make it that far along. She also said Memorial weekend isn't the best option so I'm going to ask her about May 16th which would be 38 weeks gestation and isn't too uncommon for scheduled c sections. If we can do it that day then Ricky would be able to possibly be off until June 1st which would be awesome since I'll for sure need his help for a good while and can't drive for 14 days after my surgery. Anyway, we will see. We have nothing for her which is crazy because this far along with the trips we had cribs built and a ton of stuff bought. :)
Anyway, we are all on the mend around here. I'm so thankful we are all home and can be together for Christmas. It crossed my mind several times at how lucky I am to have these kids and that I get to have them home with me for Christmas. I think about all the moms that don't have that luxury. This is just a little bump in the road and I'm thankful for that.
We got several Christmas cards this year. Actually more than we usually do. We thank everyone for thinking of our family this season. Aunt Judi & Uncle Daryl, Aunt Cathy & Uncle James, Granny & Big Dad: Thank you all for sending the kids money for Christmas. Your generosity really touches the heart. We love yall much.
Merry Christmas!
The Patton Family
Baby Truette's appointment was great Friday. She is a little bit small but the doctor isn't worried. She is developing and growing on track. She has become very active the past couple weeks and it is an ease to my mind every move I feel. I did ask if I could have her on May 30th (my Dad and Pop's birthday) but she doesn't think I can make it that far along. She also said Memorial weekend isn't the best option so I'm going to ask her about May 16th which would be 38 weeks gestation and isn't too uncommon for scheduled c sections. If we can do it that day then Ricky would be able to possibly be off until June 1st which would be awesome since I'll for sure need his help for a good while and can't drive for 14 days after my surgery. Anyway, we will see. We have nothing for her which is crazy because this far along with the trips we had cribs built and a ton of stuff bought. :)
Tuesday, December 17, 2013
very quick update
Christmas cards have been mailed and oh my stars they turned out extremely cute!
Ricky and I have the flu.
I gave Ricky the flu.
I was in the hospital Sunday because I was so sick and was passing out. They kept me overnight giving me a ton of fluids.
Truette is not in any danger. Her heartbeat was easily found and at their last check was 150 beats.
Ricky made 2 A's and 2 B's to end his fall semester at school. Incredibly proud of that man!
I made 1 A and 1 B.
The kids are on flu medications since they've been exposed to the flu.
We get to see Truette Friday.
KP
Ricky and I have the flu.
I gave Ricky the flu.
I was in the hospital Sunday because I was so sick and was passing out. They kept me overnight giving me a ton of fluids.
Truette is not in any danger. Her heartbeat was easily found and at their last check was 150 beats.
Ricky made 2 A's and 2 B's to end his fall semester at school. Incredibly proud of that man!
I made 1 A and 1 B.
The kids are on flu medications since they've been exposed to the flu.
We get to see Truette Friday.
KP
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
There is no passion to be found in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living. Nelson Mandela
Ricky just took his last final exam today for the semester. Super proud of him. It's been really tough for him to take a full college schedule and work full time plus mandatory overtime. Not only did he do it but he did very well in his classes. Nothing comes easy but it will be so worth it in the end.
I have my last final tomorrow. Still undecided if I will take a mini course of Christmas or not. I'm really running out of classes I can take at the local college and we need to figure out quick when we are moving so I know what university to apply to.
I mentioned in the last update that I had to visit a Cardiologist on Friday. Thursday morning I went to my nieces' great grandmother's funeral. I had Brody and Gracie with me. Ricky and Madi were in school. We were standing there and all of a sudden I lost all my hearing, felt like I was going to pass out, and couldn't speak. All I knew was I needed to sit down. My mind was focused on getting Brody and Gracie safely in the car and putting one foot in front of the other to get there. I was pouring sweat which is very odd for me. I finally got to the car and felt like I didn't really have control over what was going on, facial expressions, my vision was messed up, etc. I looked in the mirror and freaked out. My face had no color, my lips were had zero color, my eyes were odd looking. It was not good. Since my surgery, every afternoon between 4-6 I would get really sick. My left arm would start hurting really bad like at the bone, and it would follow with a horrible headache. I would immediately become beyond exhausted. Most days it was everything I could do to get the kids in their beds so I could make it to mine. Anyway, once I was able to hear and speak again, I called Ricky. He is always the first person I want by my side. He left school and told me to call the doctor right away. The doctor said I needed to get into the Cardiologist and would call me back with an appointment. About 20-30 minutes later I was recovered. Tired but recovered. I was able to drive us home and meet Ricky there. My OB office called me back and told me to be at the Cardiologist the next day at 11am. Let me just say that I was in a very well known Cardiologist less than 24 hours later. You say my OB's name and things happen.
The Cardiologist ran an EKG which came back normal. She came in and wanted the full story of what happened. She asked if I'd ever passed out before. I told her just one time in my life which was this past April. She asked if I went to the ER and I said yes, she asked which one, etc. and is in the process of getting my records. She said they shouldn't have discharged me in April. I told her they thought I passed out because of my back injury but she said they should have done more testing on my heart then. Apparently she wants to do a test that can't be done while pregnant. Anyway, she said I have some type of disorder where I pass out. I don't have the name of it because Ricky has the forms but basically my blood pressure gets really low and my blood doesn't get to my heart and brain the way it should which causes me to pass out. She ran other test and I have to follow up with her in two weeks I believe. She called my OB while in the room with me to tell her what she found and poor lady, my OB started barking off orders to her. When they hung up, they "both" insist I see a Neurologist. They want to rule out seizures and make sure I'm not having complicated migraines. Whatever that means. Anyway, the good news this doesn't affect the baby at all and has nothing to do with being pregnant.
It's always something!!
Update soon!
KP
I have my last final tomorrow. Still undecided if I will take a mini course of Christmas or not. I'm really running out of classes I can take at the local college and we need to figure out quick when we are moving so I know what university to apply to.
I mentioned in the last update that I had to visit a Cardiologist on Friday. Thursday morning I went to my nieces' great grandmother's funeral. I had Brody and Gracie with me. Ricky and Madi were in school. We were standing there and all of a sudden I lost all my hearing, felt like I was going to pass out, and couldn't speak. All I knew was I needed to sit down. My mind was focused on getting Brody and Gracie safely in the car and putting one foot in front of the other to get there. I was pouring sweat which is very odd for me. I finally got to the car and felt like I didn't really have control over what was going on, facial expressions, my vision was messed up, etc. I looked in the mirror and freaked out. My face had no color, my lips were had zero color, my eyes were odd looking. It was not good. Since my surgery, every afternoon between 4-6 I would get really sick. My left arm would start hurting really bad like at the bone, and it would follow with a horrible headache. I would immediately become beyond exhausted. Most days it was everything I could do to get the kids in their beds so I could make it to mine. Anyway, once I was able to hear and speak again, I called Ricky. He is always the first person I want by my side. He left school and told me to call the doctor right away. The doctor said I needed to get into the Cardiologist and would call me back with an appointment. About 20-30 minutes later I was recovered. Tired but recovered. I was able to drive us home and meet Ricky there. My OB office called me back and told me to be at the Cardiologist the next day at 11am. Let me just say that I was in a very well known Cardiologist less than 24 hours later. You say my OB's name and things happen.
The Cardiologist ran an EKG which came back normal. She came in and wanted the full story of what happened. She asked if I'd ever passed out before. I told her just one time in my life which was this past April. She asked if I went to the ER and I said yes, she asked which one, etc. and is in the process of getting my records. She said they shouldn't have discharged me in April. I told her they thought I passed out because of my back injury but she said they should have done more testing on my heart then. Apparently she wants to do a test that can't be done while pregnant. Anyway, she said I have some type of disorder where I pass out. I don't have the name of it because Ricky has the forms but basically my blood pressure gets really low and my blood doesn't get to my heart and brain the way it should which causes me to pass out. She ran other test and I have to follow up with her in two weeks I believe. She called my OB while in the room with me to tell her what she found and poor lady, my OB started barking off orders to her. When they hung up, they "both" insist I see a Neurologist. They want to rule out seizures and make sure I'm not having complicated migraines. Whatever that means. Anyway, the good news this doesn't affect the baby at all and has nothing to do with being pregnant.
It's always something!!
Update soon!
KP
Saturday, December 7, 2013
Meet Truette Hope Patton our BEAUTIFUL baby GIRL!
SHE is PERFECTION!
So much to update on. First I'll update about our little GIRL! Dr. Adam said everything looks great with the baby and she is very pleased with the development. We got the screener back for down syndrome and it's negative. Isn't she wonderful!?!?!!!
We had a really long Friday. My OB appointment was at 10:30 that morning but I had to go to the Cardiologist (more on that later) so we didn't get to the OB until 2. As we were walking back, Dr. Adam literally ran past me yelling to her staff she had to go. That is what I love about this women because she drops whatever is going on and gets to her patient every. single. time! The ultrasound technician called me back to do her scan and let us sit in the room. Ricky wasn't in the room right then so as she was scanning, I told her if she can see the gender to please not say until he was in the room. The ultrasound was awesome. The baby was moving around so much and I saw her sweet little feet, hands, and face. Ricky walked in as she was still scanning and he was able to see the baby too. She finished the scan but never said anything so I asked if she was able to tell the gender. She said, "yes, it's for sure a little girl." I started laughing and Ricky said, "oh boy!"He left to get the kids lunch and Dr. Adam came back. As soon as she came in I said, "Can you believe it, we are having another girl!" She said, "Just don't tell Ricky!" LOL We got back in two weeks!!
About her name. If you've been following, you know Ricky refused to have a girl name and we both loved Truett so much. I tried to get him to love Sophie Hope but not matter what, he wasn't changing his mind. He liked Noel but I don't like it at all. I kept wanting Truett to work because we have to have a kid named Truett and this is for sure, mark my words, our last child. Anyway, I asked my friends on Facebook to get a general opinion of Truett for a girl and everyone loved it but some mentioned we should spell it with an e on the end to make it more girly so Truette it is! We believe in names with strong meanings and I can't think of a better name for our daughter than Truette Hope!
We told the kids this morning. Below is how and their reactions.
Yep, pretty much have the best, most adorable little family ever!!!
Update soon.
KP
Monday, December 2, 2013
A VeRy EXCITING week!
We have had the best 5 days! Wednesday, Ricky started his vacation. I had class but before I had to be there I stopped and bought movie tickets to see Frozen. Ricky and the kids met me at the theater right after I got out of school. The movie was really beautifully done. Disney rarely disappoints. Gracie Ann is the BEST person ever to watch a princess movie with. Her reactions are so sweet and just priceless. She sat at the edge of her seat the entire 2 hours. She'd say things like, "oh daddy, look"... it was the best thing ever.
Thursday, was turkey day of course. I was so sick and was throwing up that morning but luckily started feeling better for our lunch. Everyone ate their food and we learned Madi loves ham, like a lot. We laid the kids down for a nap because that night.... we went to Santa's Wonderland!! So this was kind of last minute. It's in College Station which is about 2 hours from home. We usually only do 1 big thing every Christmas because it's so expensive and we already have our stay paid for in Grapevine plus we are going to Moody Gardens in a couple weeks for FREE. Anyway, we decided to just go for it because we only had to pay for Ricky and I! Santa's Wonderland has over 2 million lights in this little old fashioned town that was built out in the woods. We took a horse and carriage through the 37 acres to see all the lights, the kids rode ponies, we ate dinner, had hot chocolate, the kids saw a real reindeer, and a ton of other stuff. It was worth the $80 hands down! The kids couldn't believe all the lights and the atmosphere is just wonderful there.
Friday, we rode around the neighborhood looking at Christmas lights.
Saturday, a coworker of mine recently passed away so I went to his funeral. It was so sad because he was only 43 and his youngest of 3 is only 6 years old. It was a really nice service and it was great seeing some people I've not seen in over 3 years. After I came back home and we went to lunch. We rode out to Montgomery/ Lake Conroe/ Magnolia area later to look at different areas.
Sunday, we were going to go out to The Woodlands but we got some unexpected drama with Anthony that landed on our door and kind of messed up our entire past 24 hours. That kid can't turn 18 fast enough.
Anyway, we are putting our house on the market in a couple weeks if not sooner. We are following up on some land but if not we will rent a house about an hour away from where we currently are. We've decided this because Ricky is wanting to apply to A&M's Engineering program and I really want to go to Sam Houston State which would be much closer for both of us. Plus, it's closer to Ricky's job out there, nicer, and we hope to God better schools. We pulled Gracie and Brody out of school today.
We have a really exciting week ahead. Friday we see if this little baby is a boy or girl. We won't actually know until the weekend but Michelle (the kids godmother) will know Friday... EEK!!! We are so excited!!
I'll update soon!
Krista
Thursday, was turkey day of course. I was so sick and was throwing up that morning but luckily started feeling better for our lunch. Everyone ate their food and we learned Madi loves ham, like a lot. We laid the kids down for a nap because that night.... we went to Santa's Wonderland!! So this was kind of last minute. It's in College Station which is about 2 hours from home. We usually only do 1 big thing every Christmas because it's so expensive and we already have our stay paid for in Grapevine plus we are going to Moody Gardens in a couple weeks for FREE. Anyway, we decided to just go for it because we only had to pay for Ricky and I! Santa's Wonderland has over 2 million lights in this little old fashioned town that was built out in the woods. We took a horse and carriage through the 37 acres to see all the lights, the kids rode ponies, we ate dinner, had hot chocolate, the kids saw a real reindeer, and a ton of other stuff. It was worth the $80 hands down! The kids couldn't believe all the lights and the atmosphere is just wonderful there.
Friday, we rode around the neighborhood looking at Christmas lights.
Saturday, a coworker of mine recently passed away so I went to his funeral. It was so sad because he was only 43 and his youngest of 3 is only 6 years old. It was a really nice service and it was great seeing some people I've not seen in over 3 years. After I came back home and we went to lunch. We rode out to Montgomery/ Lake Conroe/ Magnolia area later to look at different areas.
Sunday, we were going to go out to The Woodlands but we got some unexpected drama with Anthony that landed on our door and kind of messed up our entire past 24 hours. That kid can't turn 18 fast enough.
Anyway, we are putting our house on the market in a couple weeks if not sooner. We are following up on some land but if not we will rent a house about an hour away from where we currently are. We've decided this because Ricky is wanting to apply to A&M's Engineering program and I really want to go to Sam Houston State which would be much closer for both of us. Plus, it's closer to Ricky's job out there, nicer, and we hope to God better schools. We pulled Gracie and Brody out of school today.
We have a really exciting week ahead. Friday we see if this little baby is a boy or girl. We won't actually know until the weekend but Michelle (the kids godmother) will know Friday... EEK!!! We are so excited!!
I'll update soon!
Krista
Tuesday, November 26, 2013
Happy Thanksgiving!
I had surgery Wednesday. Recovery took way longer than expected because I was in severe pain coming out of surgery. It felt like I was in labor and this women does not do labor pains at all. Anyway, I believe recovery was about 2 hours. Dr. Adam double stitched me so maybe that's why my body was freaking out, I don't know.
We officially became "that family" that has a fake Christmas tree. I know, I don't love it either! It's the first time in my entire life but there are pluses to a fake tree. One being it's already up and decorated! Don't start with it's too early and all that jazz. Have you ever experienced the Christmas season with 3 year olds? It's so fun and magical!
Anyway, Saturday morning Madi woke me up before 6am telling me it was time to "put up Christmas." Once I got my eyes opened and was getting up, I realized she was fast asleep and must have been talking in her sleep. Her and I went to get special breakfast and when we came home there was a very special present on the door step from the North Pole!!! Everyone was up and they tore into the special gift to find Elfie our Elf, a special letter from Santa Clause and Mrs. Clause, and Christmas pajamas! Santa is a rock star!
Ricky took Harper to her new home in the country. She has 3 acres of land to run around as she pleases and is now a house dog. She needed a new home with a family that has plenty of time for her and we are so happy to have found one for her.
When he came home, the kids were begging him to "build Christmas!" Once it was built and fluffed, we all decorated it. It's so cute because most all the decorations are on the bottom, in three specific spots :) Love those Littles!
Ricky is working his last day for the week today. It will possibly be an early day because it's SNOWING 30 minutes from his job!
We ordered our Thanksgiving dinner today and it will be ready for pickup Thanksgiving day at 11am. How easy is that? We did go to the famous Flying Saucer Pie Company for my a chocolate pie but the line was down the road 100+ people waiting in the cold rain. I'll get my pie after Thanksgiving!
Happy Thanksgiving from our little family to yours! The kids are so excited to go to the movies on Thanksgiving to see Frozen. Hard to believe this time next year we will be a family of 6!! We sure are thankful!
KP
We officially became "that family" that has a fake Christmas tree. I know, I don't love it either! It's the first time in my entire life but there are pluses to a fake tree. One being it's already up and decorated! Don't start with it's too early and all that jazz. Have you ever experienced the Christmas season with 3 year olds? It's so fun and magical!
Anyway, Saturday morning Madi woke me up before 6am telling me it was time to "put up Christmas." Once I got my eyes opened and was getting up, I realized she was fast asleep and must have been talking in her sleep. Her and I went to get special breakfast and when we came home there was a very special present on the door step from the North Pole!!! Everyone was up and they tore into the special gift to find Elfie our Elf, a special letter from Santa Clause and Mrs. Clause, and Christmas pajamas! Santa is a rock star!
Ricky took Harper to her new home in the country. She has 3 acres of land to run around as she pleases and is now a house dog. She needed a new home with a family that has plenty of time for her and we are so happy to have found one for her.
When he came home, the kids were begging him to "build Christmas!" Once it was built and fluffed, we all decorated it. It's so cute because most all the decorations are on the bottom, in three specific spots :) Love those Littles!
Ricky is working his last day for the week today. It will possibly be an early day because it's SNOWING 30 minutes from his job!
We ordered our Thanksgiving dinner today and it will be ready for pickup Thanksgiving day at 11am. How easy is that? We did go to the famous Flying Saucer Pie Company for my a chocolate pie but the line was down the road 100+ people waiting in the cold rain. I'll get my pie after Thanksgiving!
Happy Thanksgiving from our little family to yours! The kids are so excited to go to the movies on Thanksgiving to see Frozen. Hard to believe this time next year we will be a family of 6!! We sure are thankful!
KP
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
Peanut update
Quick update: The baby is PERFECTION! Had my appointment today and the ultrasound was taking a while. I'm always very nervous going to the doctor considering what we've been through so I quickly asked if everything was okay. The nurse said everything was fine but she was trying to get a measurement of the neck and the baby wouldn't be still long enough!! It was amazing to see him or her waving it's little arms, specifically one like it was saying hello and it was turning from back to side over and over again. It's little hand is perfection. Everything is just wonderful. I even got to see it's face. The nurse was finally able to get the measurement and said we could find out if it is a boy or girl today but we will know for sure in 2 weeks so I opted to wait for several reasons. Dr. Adam came in and did another ultrasound for herself and is extremely pleased at the way everything looks and the baby. She said after surgery tomorrow everything will be great.
The kids were with me today and were so excited to hear it's heartbeat and see the baby. The girls both said they like my baby when we were leaving. Madi said she also has a baby and held up her shirt so now I'm trying to tell her only I have a baby.
Update soon!
KP
Monday, November 18, 2013
Surgery week is here!
Let me just say that I got really sick last Thursday. So sick I went to a doctor. Turns out I have a good ol' fashion cold.
Let me also say that Ricky and I will be married EIGHT YEARS tomorrow.
We decided we would go out for dinner and some type of fun on Saturday to celebrate. Also because we desperately needed a break from a certain set of three year olds. It was the only day during this cold I was unable to taste or smell. To make matters way, way, way worse, we went to our favorite steakhouse. And to top it off, we were going to walk around Market Street but it started raining when we were walking to the car from dinner. Yep, can't make it up folks!
Anyway, tomorrow the kids and I will be up and in the medical center early. I am going to register at the hospital before my appointment with the OB since the appointments are sooooo long. They are so excited to see the baby. It's so cute now because if they hear a little baby crying they ask me what that is and if it's my baby. Do they know something about this baby I don't? Like it will cry a lot? They follow that by telling me how much they love and like my baby. So flippin cute!
Wednesday morning the five of us (+ baby Patton) will be leaving at 4:30 AM :( to head to the hospital. Surgery is scheduled to start at 7:30 and I figure we will be home by mid day at the latest.
Also, I wonder if Dr. Adam will let 3 little assistants in the OR on delivery day? Probably not but we do EVERYTHING as a family and the thought of them having to stay somewhere for at least 3 days when I have this baby is not something I'm looking forward to. Unless it's an amazing vacation, I want my favorite peeps with me!
Monday, November 11, 2013
That time the kids saw the Disney characters in real life!
Once upon a time there were two beautiful princess that spent their day dreaming of becoming queens! Each and every day was spent dancing and all things princess. One day their parents shocked them big time and they....
MET MINNIE AND MICKEY MOUSE!!!!!!
Saturday night we took the kids to Disney on Ice. They were beyond excited. Really I don't think I have words for the anticipation and I really don't have words for that moment they saw Minnie and Mickey Mouse in person. We left the house around 3pm to have dinner and plenty of time to get to the 7:30 show. We did get there a little early but it worked out. Anyway, Ricky decided well before the event that he was bringing a "little" cash for them to pick out something special. It was not nearly as costly as I thought it would be but it was so cute to see their little eye light up so big and have so many options to pick from. Madi settled on Bell the doll from Beauty and the Beast, Gracie settled for Snow White but she really wanted Ariel but her little world is going to be rocked come Christmas so we said no but she was excited to get Snow White. Brody picked out Woody. We then stopped and got some nachos (pregnant lady is ALWAYS hungry) and drinks and headed to our AMAZING seats! Our seats were so awesome. The kids were able to see everything and up close too! After nachos I got them a cotton candy which was their first time to ever have and was not their favorite thing. And then it was time for the show to start. When Minnie and Mickey skated out Gracie Ann's mouth dropped, both hands went to her mouth, and she said wow. She was nearly in tears! It was the sweetest thing we'd ever seen. Madi's mouth dropped open, both hands went into the air, and she squealed with excitement. Brody smiled so big and pointed. Hands down worth every single penny we spent. The next two hours the kids were glued to every character that came out. They danced and sang and danced some more. It was pure joy for 2 straight hours. We asked them what their favorite parts were at the end and Gracie shouted out Ariel from the Little Mermaid and Minnie and Mickey. Madi said the same and also Nemo and the princesses. Brody said Buzz and Woody, Minnie and Mickey.
We feel about this ---- big because we were going to take them on a Disney cruise earlier this year but Brody and Gracie were not potty trained and would have been limited on the things they could do. Then we decided to fly to Disney but canceled last minute because of all the walking we knew they were not strong enough to do yet. And now seeing how much they just loved the program, we want nothing more than to get them to Disney but now we can't because we have a little bundle of joy on the way. It'll be several years before we'll be able to get them there :( First world problems.. I know.
We have a very busy couple weeks. My Psychology class ends this weekend!! So excited not to drive to Tomball every Saturday morning at 7:30 am!! Ricky and I are celebrating our anniversary a little early and going to our favorite steak house on Saturday night. Next Wednesday is my surgery. We have to be there at 5:30 in the morning but after these two weeks, the fun begins!! We are going to take the kids to see the newest Disney movie on Thanksgiving. They've been so excited to see it. Ricky will be off for several days that week as well. The weekend of the 13th we will be in Galveston to see Polar Express in 3D and the Festival of Lights at Moody Gardens. Luckily Ricky is taking a long weekend for that too. The following week I believe, we find out what our little peanut is!!! And the next week is Christmas! Ricky is off many days for that and we are also going to Grapevine to the Gaylord Texan!! We leave Christmas day and will return the next day. Shrek and characters are there and they have over 2 tons of ice they carve to make different things as well as several slides, etc. And all the lights!! They have millions of Christmas lights throughout the resort.
That's what's going on in the Patton house. I love this little family so much and we are all so excited for little Truett or little baby no name STILL to join us. Full term and healthy of course!!
KP
PS: Christmas cards might be a little late or turn into New Year cards but you'll get some type of card from us!
MET MINNIE AND MICKEY MOUSE!!!!!!
Saturday night we took the kids to Disney on Ice. They were beyond excited. Really I don't think I have words for the anticipation and I really don't have words for that moment they saw Minnie and Mickey Mouse in person. We left the house around 3pm to have dinner and plenty of time to get to the 7:30 show. We did get there a little early but it worked out. Anyway, Ricky decided well before the event that he was bringing a "little" cash for them to pick out something special. It was not nearly as costly as I thought it would be but it was so cute to see their little eye light up so big and have so many options to pick from. Madi settled on Bell the doll from Beauty and the Beast, Gracie settled for Snow White but she really wanted Ariel but her little world is going to be rocked come Christmas so we said no but she was excited to get Snow White. Brody picked out Woody. We then stopped and got some nachos (pregnant lady is ALWAYS hungry) and drinks and headed to our AMAZING seats! Our seats were so awesome. The kids were able to see everything and up close too! After nachos I got them a cotton candy which was their first time to ever have and was not their favorite thing. And then it was time for the show to start. When Minnie and Mickey skated out Gracie Ann's mouth dropped, both hands went to her mouth, and she said wow. She was nearly in tears! It was the sweetest thing we'd ever seen. Madi's mouth dropped open, both hands went into the air, and she squealed with excitement. Brody smiled so big and pointed. Hands down worth every single penny we spent. The next two hours the kids were glued to every character that came out. They danced and sang and danced some more. It was pure joy for 2 straight hours. We asked them what their favorite parts were at the end and Gracie shouted out Ariel from the Little Mermaid and Minnie and Mickey. Madi said the same and also Nemo and the princesses. Brody said Buzz and Woody, Minnie and Mickey.
We feel about this ---- big because we were going to take them on a Disney cruise earlier this year but Brody and Gracie were not potty trained and would have been limited on the things they could do. Then we decided to fly to Disney but canceled last minute because of all the walking we knew they were not strong enough to do yet. And now seeing how much they just loved the program, we want nothing more than to get them to Disney but now we can't because we have a little bundle of joy on the way. It'll be several years before we'll be able to get them there :( First world problems.. I know.
We have a very busy couple weeks. My Psychology class ends this weekend!! So excited not to drive to Tomball every Saturday morning at 7:30 am!! Ricky and I are celebrating our anniversary a little early and going to our favorite steak house on Saturday night. Next Wednesday is my surgery. We have to be there at 5:30 in the morning but after these two weeks, the fun begins!! We are going to take the kids to see the newest Disney movie on Thanksgiving. They've been so excited to see it. Ricky will be off for several days that week as well. The weekend of the 13th we will be in Galveston to see Polar Express in 3D and the Festival of Lights at Moody Gardens. Luckily Ricky is taking a long weekend for that too. The following week I believe, we find out what our little peanut is!!! And the next week is Christmas! Ricky is off many days for that and we are also going to Grapevine to the Gaylord Texan!! We leave Christmas day and will return the next day. Shrek and characters are there and they have over 2 tons of ice they carve to make different things as well as several slides, etc. And all the lights!! They have millions of Christmas lights throughout the resort.
That's what's going on in the Patton house. I love this little family so much and we are all so excited for little Truett or little baby no name STILL to join us. Full term and healthy of course!!
KP
PS: Christmas cards might be a little late or turn into New Year cards but you'll get some type of card from us!
Wednesday, November 6, 2013
Baby Patton update
It's been a really rough week. Monday I was really sick and stayed in bed all day. By late that afternoon, I was in so much pain in my back and sides that I had to have the doctor paged. She advised me to head to the hospital to make sure everything was okay. Ricky had to fight traffic to get back home to drive me there (he'd only been at work about 30 minutes). The ER doctor thought it was kidney stones and ordered an ultrasound of my kidneys. It was the most painful ultrasound I've had to date. The tech kept pushing so hard around my ribs and down my side. Test came back that I had a kidney infection. I got IV antibiotics and we were home around 1:30 or 2 Tuesday morning. Tuesday I stayed in bed all day again. I started having new pain that afternoon so I called the doctor and she wanted to see me. This was right before Ricky had to leave for work.. go figure. Anyway, after waiting a couple hours (I was a work in and she has a very busy practice) it was such a huge relief to see the baby's heart beating away. The baby is measuring a little small but she isn't worried about it at this time. She said the baby looks great and also informed me that I have some fibroid tumors that are also very painful. I was unaware of these. The medications I can take to help with the pain will put stress on the baby's heart. She said I could take the medicine one time to help but I don't want to do anything to put stress on this baby. I'll already be put under for surgery in two weeks.
Ricky and the kids got to see the baby for the first time yesterday. Ricky was really excited, I'll never forget these experiences with him. The office is set up awesome... there is the ultrasound machine which the doctor looks at and usually you have to break your neck to look at the screen to see the baby but not at my doctor's office! There are 2 TVs that show what she is looking at. At first the kids asked what that was and when we told them the baby and they were so excited. They thought the heart beat sounded so cool. Madi said she liked my baby and insisted in holding the ultrasound picture out of the office and the entire ride home. Love this family of mine!
I have another appointment in two weeks, the day before my surgery.
KP
Still no girl name.
Sunday, November 3, 2013
remembering
There is something about this time of year when the reality of my dad being gone almost makes the air thick to breathe. Thanksgiving was his favorite holiday and I always start thinking about him more than usual around late October through the holidays. He has almost been gone 10 years. You'd think it'd be easier and in some ways it is, but then in so many other ways it isn't. The short months after his diagnosis were hard to witness. When someone is dying of Cancer, it agonizing pain around the clock. It's physically and emotionally draining for the person that has Cancer but it's heartbreaking to watch someone die in front of you. It was so hard for me because I didn't know until maybe 2 weeks before that he didn't have a chance to survive. And really all those late night talks when he was preparing me, I thought he was just down and felt defeated. I never really understood until the very end that it was really going to be the end. I hate that my mother wasn't the person he needed by his side. I hate that he knew her for what she really was. I am so lucky for the things he shared with me.. his hopes and dreams for me and how much he loved me. We all slept on the floor around his chair the night before he died. That morning he spoke his last words and I left. I knew he was dying that day and I knew from our talks we'd said goodbye and everything we needed to say. I also knew I nor he wanted to see him leave so I arrived back after he was gone.
I can't figure out if it's normal for it to still be so painful or if it's because people changed so much for the worse after he was gone. I also don't understand how people try to kill themselves every single day with addictions but continue to survive or people who don't want to live or want to die by a certain age, live to be old. It blows my mind.
I often think about how excited he'd be about the kids. How much love he'd give them and how much they'd love him. Them not having him hurts more than me not having him.
I know everything happens for a reason but I don't understand why him. Nothing good came from him leaving. In fact, only bad things happened. I guess it isn't for us to know. All I can do is remember the good times and find peace that I will see him again one day.
KP
I can't figure out if it's normal for it to still be so painful or if it's because people changed so much for the worse after he was gone. I also don't understand how people try to kill themselves every single day with addictions but continue to survive or people who don't want to live or want to die by a certain age, live to be old. It blows my mind.
I often think about how excited he'd be about the kids. How much love he'd give them and how much they'd love him. Them not having him hurts more than me not having him.
I know everything happens for a reason but I don't understand why him. Nothing good came from him leaving. In fact, only bad things happened. I guess it isn't for us to know. All I can do is remember the good times and find peace that I will see him again one day.
KP
Friday, November 1, 2013
LOVE is when a MAN wipes away your tears, even after you left Him hanging on the cross for your sins.
The kids had the best time last night at their old school's church festival. The best thing was Ricky worked days and was able to be there with us. They got handfuls of candy after each game they played. Of course they wanted to dive right into it as soon as we got home but it was after 8 and they had to go to sleep. I emptied all the candy and put it in a bowl and HID it. This morning Madi was the first one up and joined me in the living room. When she walked in she saw her backpack and ran to it. She was extremely disappointed to find it empty and let me know all about how it wasn't okay with her. It was so funny. If I had any clue she would think about the candy and have a reaction, I would have video taped it.
Off to school they went. Today was the last day at Brody and Gracie's current school. Monday they will start a new program much more appropriate for them at a new school. I like the fact it's in our neighborhood and less than 5 minutes away. We've been up there every day this week and they seem to be very excited about the change. Ricky rode with B, G and I to get Madi. As soon as she got in the car she announced that she was born in Texas and that she went to San Antonio to see Shamu. We were so impressed! Ricky and I really hope Brody and Gracie will get that type of education in this new setting.
Next Saturday we are taking the kids to Disney on Ice. We've not told them yet and cannot wait to see the reactions! They have seen the commercials that come on and freak out.
Gracie and I get to see baby peanut next Friday morning before her appointment. I'll update soon.
KP
Off to school they went. Today was the last day at Brody and Gracie's current school. Monday they will start a new program much more appropriate for them at a new school. I like the fact it's in our neighborhood and less than 5 minutes away. We've been up there every day this week and they seem to be very excited about the change. Ricky rode with B, G and I to get Madi. As soon as she got in the car she announced that she was born in Texas and that she went to San Antonio to see Shamu. We were so impressed! Ricky and I really hope Brody and Gracie will get that type of education in this new setting.
Next Saturday we are taking the kids to Disney on Ice. We've not told them yet and cannot wait to see the reactions! They have seen the commercials that come on and freak out.
Gracie and I get to see baby peanut next Friday morning before her appointment. I'll update soon.
KP
Monday, October 21, 2013
little peanut update
Today was my first appointment with my old doctor I used with the triplets. I was unsure if I would be able to use her since she is highly specialized for high risk patients. Apparently, I am high risk because of nearly dying when I had the triplets. Anyway, she walked in and shook my hand then asked if she could give me a hug. She said she was so happy that I made it through that pregnancy and asked many details about the kids. It literally pained her to have to take the kids at 25 weeks and I was her only patient in over 8 years she had to deliver so early. I told her all about the kids, showed her pictures, etc. She read over my chart and said I would for sure need another stitch. The ultrasound tech did my ultrasound and I got to hear little peanuts heart beat for the first time :) she said everything looked really great. The doctor came in and did her ultrasound too and she said everything was looking really great and even pointed out little one's arms. She said she would try to stretch my appointments out to every 2 to 3 weeks but she would like me in the office every 2. I don't mind, I get to see the little one every appointment so we settled for every 2 weeks. My surgery will be the week before Thanksgiving. If I remember correctly, it wasn't a bad surgery and I think I was back to normal by the afternoon. Now a lot has changed as I was just 23 at the time and now I'm 27 and exhausted but I can only hope it will be as easy as I remember.
I am so happy I had the instinct to make an appointment with her. I really liked my regular doctor here in Kingwood but she wasn't even going to send me to the specialist to see if I needed this surgery until Christmas time and I wouldn't have the surgery until January! That is huge because they are stitching up my cervix so I don't go into preterm labor! Plus, this doctor saving my life puts my worries on the back burner.. I know I'm in good hands and Ricky does too.
KP
Sunday, October 20, 2013
A man needs a woman with vision. Her perspective, faith, and support will change his reality. If she doesn't challenge you, then she's no good for you. Men who want to stay ordinary will tell you not have expectations of them. Men who want to be great will expect you to push them, pray with them, and invest in them. -unknown
Madi: Mommy, you are best my friend.
Me: caught off guard I asked, did you say I'm your best friend?
Madi: Yes, you are my best friend.
Me: Thank you Madi. You are my best friend too.
Madi: I love you Mommy.
Me: I love you too sweet girl.
It's been a really busy time in our lives. It seems the end of the year will be here in the blink of an eye. Ricky and I are both plugging away at school. He just finished up one of his classes. It was a fast track but still the same work load as a full semester class. Anyway, he finished with an A. Super awesome considering the fact he is taking a full time class schedule and working over 40 hours per week. I have a class finishing in a couple weeks, and we both have new classes that start on Monday. It might be taking up forever but we are accomplishing something.
Friday we had a meeting with the school staff and district employees. I think we did get a lot of things accomplished but it was brought to our attention that Brody and Gracie are probably in the wrong program. The district employee thinks another program might be a better fit since they've mastered almost every goal for the school year and they've not even been in a full grading period. I've thought this all along. To be very honest, they are the only verbal kids that are capable of learning in their class. I never wanted them to be the smartest kids in any class. That shouldn't be read into more than what I said because I realize how big of a blessing that is. Anyway, we will meet with her this coming week to check out the new program and decide if we should move them. It would be a new school with all new support staff as well as teacher so we need to take that into consideration.
Madi is doing really good in school. Ricky met me at her school this week so we could decide on which pictures to buy (they did 3 poses for crying out loud!) and one of her teachers and the director had the nicest things to say about her. She might be a foot smaller than her classmates but from what they tell us, she is fearless. They said they get so nervous because they think she is to small to do this or that but she will tackle whatever it might be without hesitation. The work she is doing and bring home is amazing. She is can count on her fingers now, tell us what number is written as well as letter. Her pre handwriting skills are impressive as well. They have them trace different lines and she is well on her way to perfection. They are also learning shapes. This week was triangle. She is so excited to show us her folder of the work she did at school that day and if Ricky isn't home to see it, we have to save it for the next day when he is home. We are blown away at the things she is learning and the amount of work they accomplish in the few short hours she is there. The day we were picking up pictures, we walked by her room on the way out. Me being me, I had to peek. She was one of the only ones following along with the teacher as they stood there singing head, shoulders, knees, and toes and doing the little dance that goes with it. She loves to learn.
Ricky found the last puppy a home yesterday. He said that they all went to people that seemed to be normal, nice, and that knew how to take care of a dog. Harper now cries/ howls. It's horrible and we will never do that again. I'm sure she is so lonely now that her puppies are gone and since Hoss is gone too. It's so sad.
Tomorrow I have an appointment to check on our little one. It's my first appointment with my old doctor who delivered the triplets. She told me after I had them that she would see me again in a couple years. Of course at that time, I said there was no way in this world but I guess she just knew better. Full on all day sickness has kicked in. Ricky and I have a theory that as long as I don't actually throw up then it'll be fine but if I throw up one time, it's all over with and I'll be throwing up all day long for months like what happened with the trips. I jokingly said maybe I should throw up so I won't gain a lot of weight but he didn't like that idea. It worked with the trips, I only gained 20 pounds with them. All kidding aside, I don't want to throw up at all and I'd love to not feel like I need to. I've given in and decided to find out what we will be having. Michelle and I have some super cute gender reveal ideas in mind. I believe we will find out the week before Christmas if we will have a baby Truett or a baby no name since Ricky still refuses any girl names.
Speaking of Christmas, I'm so ready for the holidays. It's going to be an exciting season. The kids are super excited about their Halloween outfits. The other day we had some Christmas gifts arrive and Madi wanted to open the box. I told her she couldn't because it was for Christmas. Without skipping a beat, she said, "It's Christmas Mommy, jingle bells, jingle all the way". We cannot wait to see their excitement. The really great news is I'm done shopping for Brody and the girls only need two more things each. Oh, and the gifts I do have are already wrapped and ready to go!! We have to get to a pumpkin patch soon. Time has slipped away. We will be going to Old McDonald Farm next weekend and they have one there so some way some how, I'll get some pumpkin pictures.
That's all she wrote... for now.
KP
Me: caught off guard I asked, did you say I'm your best friend?
Madi: Yes, you are my best friend.
Me: Thank you Madi. You are my best friend too.
Madi: I love you Mommy.
Me: I love you too sweet girl.
It's been a really busy time in our lives. It seems the end of the year will be here in the blink of an eye. Ricky and I are both plugging away at school. He just finished up one of his classes. It was a fast track but still the same work load as a full semester class. Anyway, he finished with an A. Super awesome considering the fact he is taking a full time class schedule and working over 40 hours per week. I have a class finishing in a couple weeks, and we both have new classes that start on Monday. It might be taking up forever but we are accomplishing something.
Friday we had a meeting with the school staff and district employees. I think we did get a lot of things accomplished but it was brought to our attention that Brody and Gracie are probably in the wrong program. The district employee thinks another program might be a better fit since they've mastered almost every goal for the school year and they've not even been in a full grading period. I've thought this all along. To be very honest, they are the only verbal kids that are capable of learning in their class. I never wanted them to be the smartest kids in any class. That shouldn't be read into more than what I said because I realize how big of a blessing that is. Anyway, we will meet with her this coming week to check out the new program and decide if we should move them. It would be a new school with all new support staff as well as teacher so we need to take that into consideration.
Madi is doing really good in school. Ricky met me at her school this week so we could decide on which pictures to buy (they did 3 poses for crying out loud!) and one of her teachers and the director had the nicest things to say about her. She might be a foot smaller than her classmates but from what they tell us, she is fearless. They said they get so nervous because they think she is to small to do this or that but she will tackle whatever it might be without hesitation. The work she is doing and bring home is amazing. She is can count on her fingers now, tell us what number is written as well as letter. Her pre handwriting skills are impressive as well. They have them trace different lines and she is well on her way to perfection. They are also learning shapes. This week was triangle. She is so excited to show us her folder of the work she did at school that day and if Ricky isn't home to see it, we have to save it for the next day when he is home. We are blown away at the things she is learning and the amount of work they accomplish in the few short hours she is there. The day we were picking up pictures, we walked by her room on the way out. Me being me, I had to peek. She was one of the only ones following along with the teacher as they stood there singing head, shoulders, knees, and toes and doing the little dance that goes with it. She loves to learn.
Ricky found the last puppy a home yesterday. He said that they all went to people that seemed to be normal, nice, and that knew how to take care of a dog. Harper now cries/ howls. It's horrible and we will never do that again. I'm sure she is so lonely now that her puppies are gone and since Hoss is gone too. It's so sad.
Tomorrow I have an appointment to check on our little one. It's my first appointment with my old doctor who delivered the triplets. She told me after I had them that she would see me again in a couple years. Of course at that time, I said there was no way in this world but I guess she just knew better. Full on all day sickness has kicked in. Ricky and I have a theory that as long as I don't actually throw up then it'll be fine but if I throw up one time, it's all over with and I'll be throwing up all day long for months like what happened with the trips. I jokingly said maybe I should throw up so I won't gain a lot of weight but he didn't like that idea. It worked with the trips, I only gained 20 pounds with them. All kidding aside, I don't want to throw up at all and I'd love to not feel like I need to. I've given in and decided to find out what we will be having. Michelle and I have some super cute gender reveal ideas in mind. I believe we will find out the week before Christmas if we will have a baby Truett or a baby no name since Ricky still refuses any girl names.
Speaking of Christmas, I'm so ready for the holidays. It's going to be an exciting season. The kids are super excited about their Halloween outfits. The other day we had some Christmas gifts arrive and Madi wanted to open the box. I told her she couldn't because it was for Christmas. Without skipping a beat, she said, "It's Christmas Mommy, jingle bells, jingle all the way". We cannot wait to see their excitement. The really great news is I'm done shopping for Brody and the girls only need two more things each. Oh, and the gifts I do have are already wrapped and ready to go!! We have to get to a pumpkin patch soon. Time has slipped away. We will be going to Old McDonald Farm next weekend and they have one there so some way some how, I'll get some pumpkin pictures.
That's all she wrote... for now.
KP
Friday, October 11, 2013
Trust yourself and don't let other sway you
We've had a bit of a crisis we've been dealing with. This week marked 6 weeks the kids have been in school. For six weeks without fail, Brody and Gracie have been hurt every single week. Sometimes multiple times per week. At first we were sometimes notified by a note but when we really started asking questions, all communication stopped. This meant I was getting my children off the school bus to find swollen eye that turned black, huge knots on the head, scratches on the face, 17 mosquito bites on one arm, scratches that had been bleeding down the entire leg, etc. Ricky and I went to view the classroom, wrote notes, contacted the principal, spoke to the teacher, etc and week after week they came home hurt. Finally at the beginning of October I was encouraged to find the school handbook online and see what the policy is for when kids are hurt at school. Sure enough, it stated that the school nurse or principal were to contact the parent any time a student is injured at school. With this new information, I wrote a letter to the school and included the paragraph from the handbook. Thursday morning Ricky and I were running some errands and were talking about maybe the school has got a handle on things and the injuries were not going to keep happening. Not even an hour later the school nurse called. She stated she was unsure how the injury occurred but Brody hurt his chin and neck. It was the final straw. This is 6 weeks of injuries. Brody and Gracie are 2 of only 4 students in their class. There is a teacher, a teacher aid, and at any given time a specialist teacher working with whichever student needs that specialized discipline. So that means there are 3 adults to 4 kids but yet my kids are getting really injured every single week at school. Gone was trying to nicely press the issue. Gone was reasoning. Gone was us putting up with the very apparent neglect. I called and left messages for an emergency ARD. I also added that my children would not be attending until an ARD happened and a safety plan was in place. I also called the Director of Special Education for the school district and left a message with her office. The teacher ended up calling me to inform me on Brody's injury and before she got into how it happened, I told her this was excessive, that they would not be back until a safety plan was in place, that I did not like them being with the Pre-K class at all, etc. This BLOWS my mind but she has known all along that changes needed to be made but said NOTHING! She also has known that Pre- K kids have been hurting my two little 3 year olds on the playground but said NOTHING! She also stated she didn't understand certain things in their ARD paperwork. I was so pissed off. I was literally shaking. To find out that she has known all along my kids are in danger and did nothing makes me sick. The more I think about it the more angry I get. There is NO excuse! Right after that, the principal called and had the nerve to state she didn't understand why I was so upset. I asked her if any other student in her school under HER care has been hurt weekly since school started and when she said no, I informed her that was the reason I was so upset. I enlightened her on the entire situation and that I was in contact with people way beyond her. Fast forward to last night, I get a phone call from the Director of Special Education. She was actually really awesome. I told her every single thing that has happened since the kids started. From Brody's lens in his glasses missing and the teacher having no clue when or where and turning out it fell out of the bus that morning but yet she was clueless until he was going home, to both kids getting hurt on faulty equipment a week apart in the classroom that they didn't remove until Brody was hurt much worse than Gracie and I had to say something, to Gracie's swollen eye that turned black, her collar of her shirt being so stretched out it fell off both shoulders, to the huge goose eggs on both their head. I told her we were not being notified, that we tried to speak to the teacher and principal but nothing changed. She knew everything. She also knew there was no negotiating my kids going back to that school until an ARD was called. She understood where I was coming from, apologized, and is launching a full investigation. It should be concluded by next Friday.
I share this to say this: I did not want Brody and Gracie going to PPCD. In fact, I was literally sick about it. I allowed others to talk me into putting them into the program because they would "benefit" so greatly from PPCD. This is the worse thing I've done. I should have listened to myself. I felt those feelings for a reason. Instead I trusted my kids were safe and well taken care of but they were not. In fact, they've been hurt more in the six weeks they've been in the school than they've been in any environment. They were in preschool 1.5 years prior to entering Humble ISD and Brody was hurt 1 time and Gracie was never hurt. Finding out and getting the clear picture of what has taken place for 6 weeks literally makes me sick and enrages me. I'm so pissed off that I know I have to stay away from that school for a while. You don't mess with my kids! You don't put them in danger week after week when you know what the problem is. Shame on that damn school!
Anyway, Brody and Gracie are currently home until that ISD can figure out there ass from a leaf and can prove and insure me that my kids are safe.
KP
I share this to say this: I did not want Brody and Gracie going to PPCD. In fact, I was literally sick about it. I allowed others to talk me into putting them into the program because they would "benefit" so greatly from PPCD. This is the worse thing I've done. I should have listened to myself. I felt those feelings for a reason. Instead I trusted my kids were safe and well taken care of but they were not. In fact, they've been hurt more in the six weeks they've been in the school than they've been in any environment. They were in preschool 1.5 years prior to entering Humble ISD and Brody was hurt 1 time and Gracie was never hurt. Finding out and getting the clear picture of what has taken place for 6 weeks literally makes me sick and enrages me. I'm so pissed off that I know I have to stay away from that school for a while. You don't mess with my kids! You don't put them in danger week after week when you know what the problem is. Shame on that damn school!
Anyway, Brody and Gracie are currently home until that ISD can figure out there ass from a leaf and can prove and insure me that my kids are safe.
KP
Tuesday, October 8, 2013
False alarms and false starts, All made better by the sound of your heart, All the pain of the last time, I prayed so hard it was the last time
Today I met my ONE HEALTHY little peanut that has a STRONG heart beat. We had a big scare over the weekend. The doctor sent me to the ER and I had an ultrasound tech give me some very incorrect information. It lead to a lot of unnecessary worry. I mean a LOT. Anyway, all my blood work still looks awesome and the little one is measuring correctly. The doctor was very surprised we could see the heart beat already and that it was so strong. I love that!
I am still trying to talk Ricky into not finding out if little peanut is a boy or girl. He still insist we find out.
We still only have a boy name which is Truett Allen. Although I still Love Sophie Hope and I also like the names Lacey and Quinn. Of course Ricky does not love any of the girl names.
Brody and Gracie still don't really understand. They think when I have to go to the doctor it's because of my back. Speaking of my back, I will have to suffer through any additional pain until after the baby is born. Knock on wood, it's not been bad. They also think it will be safe to get an epidural for my c section which is great because the other option is to be totally under and I don't want that. I also found out today that the doctor will remove my old c section scare and I'll have a new one that is smaller. Kind of freaks me out to think about. Makes sense it will be smaller since there is only one baby.
I have another appointment in two weeks.
KP
Thursday, September 26, 2013
Gracie- a follow up
In love..
KP
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
Children are a gift from the Lord: They are a reward from Him. Psalms 127:3
Thank you all for the well wishes. We are so shocked and excited. We pray for a healthy full term baby. If love is enough it will happen. I will go for my first official appointment next week to do more blood work, fill out insurance forms, and go over medical history. The following week I will have my first ultrasound and appointment with the doctor. I will have a regular doctor and a high risk specialist on board too. I believe the plan is to see the high risk specialist once a month. I will have another scheduled C section. The plan is the deliver at St. Luke's in The Woodlands. I've already had sets of blood work and the results have came back great. All my levels are rising "beautifully" per the doctor.
I will probably update here so I'm not asked the same questions over and over again - you know who you are ;) And right now we don't know anymore than what I've stated above.
Boy Name : Truett Allen
Girl Name : Ricky refuses to have one but I LOVE Sophie Hope (he doesn't love it)
I also do not want to find out if it's a boy or girl until we have him or her but Ricky wants to.
We've tried to explain to the kids but they don't really understand. Actually I think they do but when Madi states she wants another baby sissy, Ricky is sure she mean to say bubby :) Last night she did tell me that I have a baby in my tummy and it's her bubba. Without missing a beat she told me it was a baby bubby and his name was Jesus. How sweet is that?
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The kids are doing really well in school. Madi is blowing us away with the school work she is bringing home. Yesterday I asked her if they were learning the letter C and she said yes and it was like camel. She also comes home singing new songs all the time. When I ask her what her friends names are, she tells me their names are "friends". She loves her teachers Ms. Paula and Ms. Christy and it's really cute to hear her say.
Gracie Ann is talking so well. I couldn't be more proud of her. She seems to say her S a little weird but I don't correct her right now because I want her to be confident in speaking and not have her worry. She is still my little worrier but she is really maturing and blossoming right now. There is a confidence about her that I can only hope continues to get stronger.
Brody's vocabulary is wonderful! It has always been stronger but he is asking more questions in full sentences and you can understand what he says about 98% of the time. We are still struggling in some areas but I'm interested to see where we will be at the end of the year.
Ricky is doing well. School and work consume most of his life. One of his classes ends in about 2 weeks so it will free up some time. He has a lot of vacation left that he has planned to take during the holidays so that will be nice.
I've been busy with school too and next month will start my 6 days a week classes until November and then 5 days a week until December. I really love my Psychology class. It's the most interesting class I've taken to date. I have a huge test on Saturday in the class. I have to know the parts of the brain and what they do along with some other things.
We STILL have the puppies. It rained all last weekend so we didn't have a chance to get them homes. This weekend is the weekend though. They are currently going through a bag of food every 3 days! Yikes it's expensive!
I'll update soon!
KP
Monday, September 23, 2013
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
My house isn't messy. It's custom designed by 3 year olds.
I received an email from the school yesterday for the first meeting for homeroom moms. I was a little shock they are meeting so soon. Yes, I am the homeroom mom for B & G's class. It made sense since mine are 2 of 4 kids in the room.
I've been crafty/ artsy the past couple weeks. It started with me making some art for our bedroom. Yesterday I made art for Brody's room. He was so sweet and thanked me so many times for making a picture for his room. He even wanted a picture with it to send to Ricky. Of course as soon as the girls caught wind of what was going on, they needed one too. They were equally excited and kept telling me they loved it. We had a bit of a problem with hanging it because they couldn't both decided on the same place to put it. Gracie finally compromised and it went above their bed.
We've been busy this morning. B & G got off to school and Madi and I've weeded the flower bed, got dinner going, and are headed out to run some errands. I'm wondering if I should do a little online learning program with Madi the two days she isn't in school. Anyone have experience with ABC Mouse?
I think we've decided to go to a fall festival for Halloween this year instead of trick or treating. The one at their old school is suppose to be great and hopefully there won't be scary costumes like you see while trick or treating.
The puppies are getting new homes this weekend. It's time. They are the cutest little things ever but 5 puppies + the momma = a lot of dog food! If you are interested in a Boxer pup contact me.
Update soon!
KP
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Monday, September 16, 2013
Don't raise your kids to have more than you had, raise them to be more than your were.
Last week wasnt' the best. Brody's lens came out of his glasses while at school and the teacher didn't notice it until the end of the day. Luckily, I asked the bus driver to look for it the next morning and the aid found it. That saved us nearly $300.
The bus department tried to change the pickup time to 7am. I had to take them back and forth to school for two days while that was being worked out.
Friday, Brody came home with a bandage the length of his leg. Apparently he scrapped his leg on the exact same steps in the classroom bathroom that Gracie did the week before. You'd think they would have fixed it when Gracie got hurt.
We almost bought a house. Yes, that is out of left field.
I met with University of Houston Downtown. The local college continues to advise me wrong for classes I need to take. They keep trying to make me obtain an Associates which isn't required if you are going for your Bachelors. It's more classes that don't transfer to your Bachelors which equals more money for the local college and time wasted. Anyway, I need 3 classes: 2 Science, 1 Math after this semester. Friday I was able to sign up for a Psychology class that started Saturday. The class is in Tomball which is an hour away but it's only 10 weeks long. That puts me going to school on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays until October, then I'll go 6 days a week.
Ricky is chipping away at school as well. He is taking a full load this semester. I keep trying to get him to meet with U of H because the program is extremely hard to get into and if he isn't accepted into it his only other choice is A&M which is too far from our home but easier to get into than U of H. I asked the advisor I met with at U of H just to get some general information and when I told the advisor what Ricky was majoring in (Engineering) he asked me if I knew anything about it. Of course I do, I've done a lot of research and Ricky works with Engineers every day. Anyway, he told me he'd just went to a big conference and the number 1 job right now is Petroleum Engineering and it's a guaranteed six figure incoming with zero experience coming out of school. We knew that but love to hear someone who works in the school setting with the companies saying that too. Ricky has a huge advantage because he has 5 years experience this year so by the time he is done with school it'll be that much better. The way all of this is happening is such a huge blessing. With his company paying his tuition and half of his books, him working nights so he can go to school, and having a goal set and working towards it every day. We might not have a lot of free time but this time will pass quicker than we think and there will come a day when Ricky works 8-5 Monday- Friday- and me too!
Madi's school is going great. The teachers say the nicest things about her. The biggest is that she is fearless. She is much smaller than her classmates and the teachers try to protect her but the teachers said she hangs with her classmates, climbs all over the playground equipments, etc without a problem. That's our little firecracker. Gymnastics is going great. She tries so hard and has perfected jumping with both feet off the ground. That is something two years of therapy never accomplished. I'd love to see her in dance. She is so interested in it.
Friday the kids and I went to eat gourmet pizza. On the way we were listening to the radio which the girls sing along and it's so cute! Anyway, Madi told me to turn it up and her and Gracie were sassy dancing their little hearts out as much as possible while being buckled in their car seats. I mean it was duck lips out, shacking their shoulders and all. I told their daddy that they do not get the duck lips from their momma... momma loathes duck lips!
Brody has an appointment with the Neurologist this week. They all have dental appointments too.
I booked our Christmas event! Last year we did the train ride to the North Pole. This year we are going to the Gaylord Texan in Grapevine. It's a huge resort type hotel and they have a huge Christmas event inside the hotel. We are so excited to go!
Update soon!
KP
The bus department tried to change the pickup time to 7am. I had to take them back and forth to school for two days while that was being worked out.
Friday, Brody came home with a bandage the length of his leg. Apparently he scrapped his leg on the exact same steps in the classroom bathroom that Gracie did the week before. You'd think they would have fixed it when Gracie got hurt.
We almost bought a house. Yes, that is out of left field.
I met with University of Houston Downtown. The local college continues to advise me wrong for classes I need to take. They keep trying to make me obtain an Associates which isn't required if you are going for your Bachelors. It's more classes that don't transfer to your Bachelors which equals more money for the local college and time wasted. Anyway, I need 3 classes: 2 Science, 1 Math after this semester. Friday I was able to sign up for a Psychology class that started Saturday. The class is in Tomball which is an hour away but it's only 10 weeks long. That puts me going to school on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays until October, then I'll go 6 days a week.
Ricky is chipping away at school as well. He is taking a full load this semester. I keep trying to get him to meet with U of H because the program is extremely hard to get into and if he isn't accepted into it his only other choice is A&M which is too far from our home but easier to get into than U of H. I asked the advisor I met with at U of H just to get some general information and when I told the advisor what Ricky was majoring in (Engineering) he asked me if I knew anything about it. Of course I do, I've done a lot of research and Ricky works with Engineers every day. Anyway, he told me he'd just went to a big conference and the number 1 job right now is Petroleum Engineering and it's a guaranteed six figure incoming with zero experience coming out of school. We knew that but love to hear someone who works in the school setting with the companies saying that too. Ricky has a huge advantage because he has 5 years experience this year so by the time he is done with school it'll be that much better. The way all of this is happening is such a huge blessing. With his company paying his tuition and half of his books, him working nights so he can go to school, and having a goal set and working towards it every day. We might not have a lot of free time but this time will pass quicker than we think and there will come a day when Ricky works 8-5 Monday- Friday- and me too!
Madi's school is going great. The teachers say the nicest things about her. The biggest is that she is fearless. She is much smaller than her classmates and the teachers try to protect her but the teachers said she hangs with her classmates, climbs all over the playground equipments, etc without a problem. That's our little firecracker. Gymnastics is going great. She tries so hard and has perfected jumping with both feet off the ground. That is something two years of therapy never accomplished. I'd love to see her in dance. She is so interested in it.
Friday the kids and I went to eat gourmet pizza. On the way we were listening to the radio which the girls sing along and it's so cute! Anyway, Madi told me to turn it up and her and Gracie were sassy dancing their little hearts out as much as possible while being buckled in their car seats. I mean it was duck lips out, shacking their shoulders and all. I told their daddy that they do not get the duck lips from their momma... momma loathes duck lips!
Brody has an appointment with the Neurologist this week. They all have dental appointments too.
I booked our Christmas event! Last year we did the train ride to the North Pole. This year we are going to the Gaylord Texan in Grapevine. It's a huge resort type hotel and they have a huge Christmas event inside the hotel. We are so excited to go!
Update soon!
KP
Monday, September 9, 2013
Monday we meet again!
Well, I turned another year older rather I wanted to our not. We didn't do much this weekend. The weather was horrible on Saturday and it looked like it was going to rain all Sunday. We did have brunch at Another Broken Egg. It's the first time we've eaten there and we highly recommend it. I had the Floridian which was an omelet with cream cheese in the middle and topped with crab and cheese. Not something I'd usually just pick but it was delicious! I did a little craft project Saturday evening, making art for our bedroom. I painted it last weekend so I'm ready to get the room finished. I found some art I liked but it was nearly $100 so I went to the craft store and DIY'ed it. Yesterday we drove up to my brother's on a last minute road trip. He lives nearly an hour away. We've not been to his house in over a year. His house turned out beautifully. It's also a mini amusement park. The kids really loved riding on the big four wheeler, small four wheeler, and the jeep! John is giving the kids the small four wheeler and he took Madi to drive it to see how she would do. Let's just say we'll need to governor it down a lot! That kids is fearless and the faster the better! Of course his girls just love the kids and the kids have so much fun with their cousins. It was a really great afternoon. We got home to Madi and I getting a cold, Ricky with a ton of homework due, and Brody and Gracie walked into their rooms and went straight to bed. It wasn't late, we got home at 6:00pm.
Anyway, it's Monday morning and we are back to our regular schedule. I believe Meme is joining Madi and I at gymnastics this morning. Madi wants to show anyone who will watch her gymnastics! And I've got to get busy! There is a LOT to accomplish in the next 3 years!
Krista
Anyway, it's Monday morning and we are back to our regular schedule. I believe Meme is joining Madi and I at gymnastics this morning. Madi wants to show anyone who will watch her gymnastics! And I've got to get busy! There is a LOT to accomplish in the next 3 years!
Krista
Thursday, September 5, 2013
You are where God wants you to be at this very moment. Every experience is part of His divine plan.
Since my 25th birthday I get stressed out the week of my birthday. I freak out thinking things like: you aren't doing enough with your life, you aren't accomplishing anything, you aren't reaching your goals, etc. It makes me sick! Being a stay at home mom is really a blessing but it's the hardest job I've ever had. I'm not climbing the corporate ladder. Instead I do task that seem to not matter ever or if they do, it takes months or years to see that they do matter. Also, everyone in our lives are much older. My best friend is in her 40's and we have great friends in their 60's. It's hard to not seem like we are failing. It's hard to not compare our beginning to someone else's middle. Not that Ricky and I are just starting out, we are 10 years into this but it's so hard to not feel like we are behind. I can't seek a promotion or get a raise. There are not markers to track my success. School feels so close but still so far away. Will I ever finish? I feel like I'm spinning my wheels but going no where. Do I want to go back into the work force? Not really. It would have to be an amazing opportunity but in all honesty, my kids need me. There are therapies to attend, doctors to see, and school to get back and forth to. No one can do that job but me. But, there will come a day when I will get back to the corporate world. I have a number in my head and that is 30. So 27 comes Sunday. I have a lot to accomplish before the big 3-0. I have to be finished with school. I have to have all my certifications. And I will not have any more children after 30. Not that it's the plan but I don't want to be an old mother with young kids and I don't want a huge age gap between my kids so if we were to want anymore children, it would have to be before I'm 30. It doesn't seem like a long list of things to accomplish but everything I need to do takes a lot of time. I also have other priorities like my kids and husband. Their success is my number one priority but my goals are now just as important. It feels like I was just 19 getting married. I could never imagine 8 years later being so lucky to have this life. It's really a dream come true but I'm a big dreamer and want to accomplish so many things! Until then I will try to not get discouraged and keep on keeping on!
KP
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
Seize the Day!
Today Madi started school which would have caused for a wonderful morning for her except Brody and Gracie rode the bus for the first time ever and Madi was highly upset the bus wasn't taking her to school. I have the most pathetic first day of school picture of her ever. I'll post later in the week. She did get really happy once we were on our way to school and was very happy to see her teacher again. She walked up gave her a big hug and held her hand. The teacher showed her where to put her snack and backpack, and introduced her to some classmates. She looked up and told Ricky and I bye and she loved us. We were not exactly ready to leave but she was sending us on our merry way. Before I knew it Ricky was off to school and the school bus was dropping Brody and Gracie off at home. When I met them at the driveway, Gracie was nearly crying. We think she was scared and unsure of where they were taking her. She has only rode with one other person besides Ricky and I in her entire life. I didn't think about that. Once we got them in and backpacks unloaded, it was time to go to therapy. I dropped them off at therapy and left to pick Madi up from school. She was so excited to see me and told me all about her day. It was so awesome! We headed back to the therapy company so she could have her speech session.
We are so busy. Too busy if you ask me. I hate our schedule so much. Really what I don't like the most is therapy. I was dreading getting back into today after our long weekend. Speaking of long weekend, I painted our room and started decorating it on Saturday. Ricky did some homework and the kids played their little hearts out. Sunday we had some shopping to do and Monday I didn't get out of my jammies. It. was. awesome!
I've decided I will officially skip my birthday this Sunday. How am I 27 already? UGH! I have certain goals I have to be at by 30 and I'm realizing just how quickly it's approaching.
Friday, August 30, 2013
Thank goodness it's Friday!
I have not ever been happier to see Friday! This week has been the LONGEST!
Yesterday I dropped my legally blind son off at school without his glasses. Spare me, I'm awesome!
Today we sold our Suburban! Score on that! We got the exact amount we paid for it 3.5 years ago.
Today was Madi's meet the teacher. While at meet the teacher we received a call from Brody and Gracie's teacher. She asked if we were aware it was early release today at 9:55. It was around 10:15 when we got the call. Our reply was along the lines of: nope, omg, we'll be right there. Madi was disappointed we had to leave her class so early. We picked up Brody and Gracie and the teacher said she forgot to tell us. In their backpack was some papers she forgot to send home that had the early release announcement and time. Awesome!
It has been a week! I'm dog tired. The kids pretty much cry while eating dinner they are so tired. They even cried while eating ice cream one night. I'm taking the phones off the hook so we can sleep until tomorrow afternoon. Well, maybe not that late.
Apparently I need to have back surgery. The Chiropractor's office called and said surgery is needed, don't freak out, call this Neurosurgeon. Oh, and to do it today since he books up and evidently it needs to happen soon? Awesome! She also stated I'd be in the hospital for a couple days. My response was a nervous laugh. There is no way on this green earth I can have back surgery. For one, I can't be in the hospital for any amount of time because we have kids! Two, I cannot have back surgery because I still pick my kids up. Three, I cannot have back surgery because it terrifies the daylights out of me. Need I go on? I have a disc extrusion in my spinal column. The disc ruptured out of the vertebrae and is leaking some type of substance. It can cause extreme pain to backache which is what happens to me. I'm either going about life with a backache or I can't walk, move, hurts to breathe, etc. This is just great.
That's our week. I really hope the weekend is better! Ricky is off on Monday too!
Krista
Yesterday I dropped my legally blind son off at school without his glasses. Spare me, I'm awesome!
Today we sold our Suburban! Score on that! We got the exact amount we paid for it 3.5 years ago.
Today was Madi's meet the teacher. While at meet the teacher we received a call from Brody and Gracie's teacher. She asked if we were aware it was early release today at 9:55. It was around 10:15 when we got the call. Our reply was along the lines of: nope, omg, we'll be right there. Madi was disappointed we had to leave her class so early. We picked up Brody and Gracie and the teacher said she forgot to tell us. In their backpack was some papers she forgot to send home that had the early release announcement and time. Awesome!
It has been a week! I'm dog tired. The kids pretty much cry while eating dinner they are so tired. They even cried while eating ice cream one night. I'm taking the phones off the hook so we can sleep until tomorrow afternoon. Well, maybe not that late.
Apparently I need to have back surgery. The Chiropractor's office called and said surgery is needed, don't freak out, call this Neurosurgeon. Oh, and to do it today since he books up and evidently it needs to happen soon? Awesome! She also stated I'd be in the hospital for a couple days. My response was a nervous laugh. There is no way on this green earth I can have back surgery. For one, I can't be in the hospital for any amount of time because we have kids! Two, I cannot have back surgery because I still pick my kids up. Three, I cannot have back surgery because it terrifies the daylights out of me. Need I go on? I have a disc extrusion in my spinal column. The disc ruptured out of the vertebrae and is leaking some type of substance. It can cause extreme pain to backache which is what happens to me. I'm either going about life with a backache or I can't walk, move, hurts to breathe, etc. This is just great.
That's our week. I really hope the weekend is better! Ricky is off on Monday too!
Krista
Wednesday, August 28, 2013
First day of school/ gymnastics pictures
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| My Handsome boy! He picked out his shoes and I must say, it made the outfit! |
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| Madi at gymnastics. Her daddy took this picture. He was super proud of her. |
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Tuesday, August 27, 2013
Plenty of people miss their share of happiness, not because they never found it, but because they didn't stop to enjoy it. -William Feather
The first day of school was a success. The kids were so excited to wake up for school, wear their new clothes, and put on their backpack that they actually cooperated for pictures. It's a miracle! Brody's vision teacher met us at the front of the school. We've not seen her since the end of May and when Brody spotted her he yelled out her name and ran over to her to give her a big hug. He loves her so much! Brody was held her hand down the hall to their classroom and Gracie had Ricky's hand. I just watched and couldn't believe my babies were off to school. They walked in the classroom, we gave hugs and kiss, wished them a great day, Madi gave hugs and kisses too, and we left. They walked over to their table to start their day. And just like that it was done. The vision teacher called me 2 hours later to give me the full scoop on how they were doing, I am so grateful.
We took Madi to breakfast and both Ricky and I took her to gymnastics. She couldn't wait for her daddy to be there. I had to leave to go pick up Brody and Gracie from school. They were so excited to see me. When we were driving home I was asking them all about their day, they were telling me what they did and Gracie said she wanted sissy. I told her she would be home shortly that she was at gymnastics with daddy. As soon as Gracie heard Ricky's truck, she took off to the garage. Her and Madi met in the middle of the garage and it was the sweetest thing, like they'd not seen each other in days. Madi walked up and gave her a big hug and kiss, asked her how her school was, and did the same to Brody. Ricky told me Madi asked for her sissy when they were leaving gymnastics.
Today the kids were equally excited about school. I dropped them off alone while Ricky slept and Madi was just waking up. They did fantastic. I got an unexpected text from Brody's vision teacher of pictures of Brody and Gracie so happy playing and interacting in their classroom. This is why that woman is golden. She was not required to go to their school today but she did because she truly cares for Brody AND Gracie.
Madi and I went to the grocery store, made lunch and dinner. Before we knew it, it was time to go pick B & G up from school and go to Speech and Occupational Therapy. They were so excited to see each other and B & G were literally talking in full sentences anyone could understand telling us about their day. That is pretty incredible! We got home from therapy right after Ricky got home from school.
It is literally none stop now. We get up at 7am, quickly get dressed and out the door for school. By the time I'm home it seems I'm leaving to pick them up from school. Then there is therapy, my school, Ricky's school, and not much time for anything else. I tried to schedule 6 month dental cleanings for all of us today and literally couldn't find an available time that the dentist also had available. They offered over 5 appointments and none of the times worked. It's intense.
This is the way I have to write our schedule out:
Monday:
B school 7:50-11 Physical Therapy still waiting on times
G school 7:50-11 Physical Therapy still waiting on times
M gymnastics 10:30-11:30
R online classes
K school 1:30-2:50
Tuesday:
B school 7:50-11 Speech &OT Therapy 11:30-12:30
G school 7:50-11Speech &OT Therapy 11:30-12:30
M school 9:15-12:15 Speech Therapy 12:30-1:00
R school 11:00 12:20 leave early for wrk 2:30
K
Wednesday:
We took Madi to breakfast and both Ricky and I took her to gymnastics. She couldn't wait for her daddy to be there. I had to leave to go pick up Brody and Gracie from school. They were so excited to see me. When we were driving home I was asking them all about their day, they were telling me what they did and Gracie said she wanted sissy. I told her she would be home shortly that she was at gymnastics with daddy. As soon as Gracie heard Ricky's truck, she took off to the garage. Her and Madi met in the middle of the garage and it was the sweetest thing, like they'd not seen each other in days. Madi walked up and gave her a big hug and kiss, asked her how her school was, and did the same to Brody. Ricky told me Madi asked for her sissy when they were leaving gymnastics.
Today the kids were equally excited about school. I dropped them off alone while Ricky slept and Madi was just waking up. They did fantastic. I got an unexpected text from Brody's vision teacher of pictures of Brody and Gracie so happy playing and interacting in their classroom. This is why that woman is golden. She was not required to go to their school today but she did because she truly cares for Brody AND Gracie.
Madi and I went to the grocery store, made lunch and dinner. Before we knew it, it was time to go pick B & G up from school and go to Speech and Occupational Therapy. They were so excited to see each other and B & G were literally talking in full sentences anyone could understand telling us about their day. That is pretty incredible! We got home from therapy right after Ricky got home from school.
It is literally none stop now. We get up at 7am, quickly get dressed and out the door for school. By the time I'm home it seems I'm leaving to pick them up from school. Then there is therapy, my school, Ricky's school, and not much time for anything else. I tried to schedule 6 month dental cleanings for all of us today and literally couldn't find an available time that the dentist also had available. They offered over 5 appointments and none of the times worked. It's intense.
This is the way I have to write our schedule out:
Monday:
B school 7:50-11 Physical Therapy still waiting on times
G school 7:50-11 Physical Therapy still waiting on times
M gymnastics 10:30-11:30
R online classes
K school 1:30-2:50
Tuesday:
B school 7:50-11 Speech &OT Therapy 11:30-12:30
G school 7:50-11Speech &OT Therapy 11:30-12:30
M school 9:15-12:15 Speech Therapy 12:30-1:00
R school 11:00 12:20 leave early for wrk 2:30
K
Wednesday:
B school 7:50-11 Physical Therapy still waiting on times
G school 7:50-11 Physical Therapy still waiting on times
M
R online classes
K school 1:30-2:50
Thursday:
B school 7:50-11 Speech &OT Therapy 11:30-12:30
G school 7:50-11Speech &OT Therapy 11:30-12:30
M school 9:15-12:15 Speech Therapy 12:30-1:00
R school 11:00 12:20 leave early for wrk 3:00
K
Friday
B school 7:50-11 Physical Therapy still waiting on times
G school 7:50-11 Physical Therapy still waiting on times
M school 9:15-12:15
R online classes
K
This will slightly change in October when my other class starts. I will be going 5 days a week until December. So it's insane. I literally don't make it past 11pm. I've never been a morning person so waking up at 7am is rough :)
I have the sweetest pictures I will try to get up this week.
Krista
Monday, August 26, 2013
...
I wonder what you're doing right now,
And if everyone is treating you kind.
I wonder if the teacher knows
Just how special you are to me.
And if the brightness of your heart
Is something she can see.
I already miss the sound of your voice
And how you give my leg a tug.
I wonder if you could possibly understand
How hard it is for me to let you grow.
On this day know that my heart breaks,
For this is the first step in letting my baby go.
One day soon we will wake up and it will be each of your first day of senior year. Until then, I pray God helps your father and I mold you into the people He intended you to be. Every day counts.
I love you so very much.
Mommy
And if everyone is treating you kind.
I wonder if the teacher knows
Just how special you are to me.
And if the brightness of your heart
Is something she can see.
I already miss the sound of your voice
And how you give my leg a tug.
I wonder if you could possibly understand
How hard it is for me to let you grow.
On this day know that my heart breaks,
For this is the first step in letting my baby go.
One day soon we will wake up and it will be each of your first day of senior year. Until then, I pray God helps your father and I mold you into the people He intended you to be. Every day counts.
I love you so very much.
Mommy
Sunday, August 25, 2013
There are only 940 Saturdays between your child's birth and them leaving for college.
That is a big dose of perspective. Every day counts.
Brody and Gracie will wake up bright and early for school tomorrow morning. They are ready. I am not. I'm dreading it actually. When they started preschool I knew it was right. Every bit of me knew they would grow, thrive, and be safe there. I didn't worry a single day about my kids. B & G's new teacher seems really nice. She called me on Wednesday to get a few basics about them. We talked for 45 minutes and she really seems great but... they were two of only four kids in the class. Now they are two of only 3 total in the class. I've met the other child. I am worried. I am worried about their safety and I'm worried about them picking up behaviors that would not be appropriate. The things is, Brody and Gracie are both bright children who are capable of learning in the same environment as Madi. I keep asking myself why I'm not sending them to the same school as Madi. Right now I'm beside myself for making this decision for them. And then there is the fact that my babies are 3 years old and just turned 3 for that matter. In my eyes, they have no business going to elementary school. Again, what have I done? The school smells like mold. It's literally the oldest elementary school in Kingwood and no improvements have been made. Why they would pick that school to have a program that has medically fragile children is beyond me. I was bothered by the smell and I have mild asthma. If the school makes my kids they will not attend there. I guess I can sit a pick apart the place and come up with a million reasons why we shouldn't but I will give it a try. I will see how they adjust to the early hours and the process in general.
It's not just them starting school. This summer has been amazing. We've not really had too many appointments and have had zero therapy. I hate therapy. The kids hate therapy. Ricky hates therapy. Ricky actually suggested a couple days ago to just have Gracie in PT therapy until her legs are stronger. If they don't make good progress by Christmas we will do just that. A lot of times therapy is a big waste of time. Of course therapist will get them qualified like they really need it but we've been doing this for 3 years now and quite honestly they've made the improvements they've made just by living normal life.
Tomorrow also starts school for Ricky and I.
Madi also has gymnastics and thank goodness because her school doesn't start until September.
So there are a lot of things starting tomorrow and I'm not sure if it's how busy we are going to be or just because I feel like I don't have control over my kids' schedule anymore. I don't know. What I do know is the days go so quickly and I feel like they are being rushed to grow up when all I want is for the clock to stand still.
Krista
Brody and Gracie will wake up bright and early for school tomorrow morning. They are ready. I am not. I'm dreading it actually. When they started preschool I knew it was right. Every bit of me knew they would grow, thrive, and be safe there. I didn't worry a single day about my kids. B & G's new teacher seems really nice. She called me on Wednesday to get a few basics about them. We talked for 45 minutes and she really seems great but... they were two of only four kids in the class. Now they are two of only 3 total in the class. I've met the other child. I am worried. I am worried about their safety and I'm worried about them picking up behaviors that would not be appropriate. The things is, Brody and Gracie are both bright children who are capable of learning in the same environment as Madi. I keep asking myself why I'm not sending them to the same school as Madi. Right now I'm beside myself for making this decision for them. And then there is the fact that my babies are 3 years old and just turned 3 for that matter. In my eyes, they have no business going to elementary school. Again, what have I done? The school smells like mold. It's literally the oldest elementary school in Kingwood and no improvements have been made. Why they would pick that school to have a program that has medically fragile children is beyond me. I was bothered by the smell and I have mild asthma. If the school makes my kids they will not attend there. I guess I can sit a pick apart the place and come up with a million reasons why we shouldn't but I will give it a try. I will see how they adjust to the early hours and the process in general.
It's not just them starting school. This summer has been amazing. We've not really had too many appointments and have had zero therapy. I hate therapy. The kids hate therapy. Ricky hates therapy. Ricky actually suggested a couple days ago to just have Gracie in PT therapy until her legs are stronger. If they don't make good progress by Christmas we will do just that. A lot of times therapy is a big waste of time. Of course therapist will get them qualified like they really need it but we've been doing this for 3 years now and quite honestly they've made the improvements they've made just by living normal life.
Tomorrow also starts school for Ricky and I.
Madi also has gymnastics and thank goodness because her school doesn't start until September.
So there are a lot of things starting tomorrow and I'm not sure if it's how busy we are going to be or just because I feel like I don't have control over my kids' schedule anymore. I don't know. What I do know is the days go so quickly and I feel like they are being rushed to grow up when all I want is for the clock to stand still.
Krista
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
It's nearly here...
I cannot believe Brody and Gracie are starting school Monday. It is sneaking up on us without asking if we are ready. We are so excited Brody's vision teacher will follow him to his new elementary school. At the end of the year the plan was for him to get a new teacher. Gracie loves the vision teacher too and she is planning to be there the first day to help them if they are scared. She is golden and a God send to this family. She stopped by the school today to meet their teacher. This isn't required of her but she wanted to meet her and make sure we were in good hands... to help calm my fears too. She had the best things to say about their teacher. That peace of mind helps a lot. Tomorrow and Friday we will be at the school having new parent meetings, meeting the teacher, and seeing the classroom. We are entering a new stage in life.
Madi now understands that she will go to a different school without Brody and Gracie however, she is still wanting to ride a school bus which isn't an option for her school. I think Monday morning will be difficult when B & G are going to school and she can't. I hope it won't be too big of a deal since she has gymnastics Monday morning.
Monday I start school too. My classes are Monday- Thursday. Ricky starts school Tuesday and goes Tuesdays and Thursdays.
The next couple days I don't want to do a single thing but hold my babies and cherish these last few days of having them as "babies". Something seems so grown about them going to school 5 days a week (B &G) and Madi 3 times a week.
I cannot imagine parents that have to take their kids to daycare. I realize how fortunate I am.
KP
Madi now understands that she will go to a different school without Brody and Gracie however, she is still wanting to ride a school bus which isn't an option for her school. I think Monday morning will be difficult when B & G are going to school and she can't. I hope it won't be too big of a deal since she has gymnastics Monday morning.
Monday I start school too. My classes are Monday- Thursday. Ricky starts school Tuesday and goes Tuesdays and Thursdays.
The next couple days I don't want to do a single thing but hold my babies and cherish these last few days of having them as "babies". Something seems so grown about them going to school 5 days a week (B &G) and Madi 3 times a week.
I cannot imagine parents that have to take their kids to daycare. I realize how fortunate I am.
KP
Monday, August 19, 2013
Big 'ole prayers needed
If you can, please keep me in your prayers. I'm down with my back again. Woke up with it hurting a little and by this afternoon couldn't move. I basically crawled into the Chiropractor. He went over my MRI again from April and got me ready to adjust my back. He moved my legs to get me in place and I could not breathe and was crying my eyes out in so much pain. He said he couldn't adjust me because he could do more damage. Basically I'm too far past the point of adjustments. He said my disc is out of place and bulging and said I needed to see a pain management doctor. He said they will do a epidural directly in between the bad disc and will give a steroid and another type of medication. He said if that doesn't help the disc move back where it's suppose to be then I will need surgery. He said for me to take the muscle spasm and muscle relaxers I got from the ER trip in April but I told him I couldn't because I don't want to be under the influence of anything with my kids around. He understood that so he asked his office to call the pain management doctor they refer patients to to try to get me in soon. Bad news is I can't be seen until Friday. I am scared out of my mind about all of this. I've had one epidural when I had my c section and it sucked. I can't imagine having another one and the thought of surgery on my spine terrifies me. I actually hope and am praying hard I don't need surgery. Also given my family history of addiction, I will refuse any type of medications that will alter me in any way. I will do the epidural medication because it isn't a narcotic but I won't take any type of pain pill. From my understanding, they put you to sleep to do the epidural because it's quite painful with the medications they inject.
All I really know is I am in a lot of pain, not being the best mom right now or wife for that matter, and can't function. I need to get back to normal now.
This morning was Madi's first gymnastics class. She did so well. She is by far the smallest by about 6 inches and doesn't quite understand everything but is giving her best and I am so proud of her. She was super proud to show off her stamp she got on her hand at the end of class and told me she wanted her daddy to watch her gymnastics.
Brody melted my heart this morning. While I was in my bathroom getting ready, they were at my bedside table. I printed off and framed the picture I posted yesterday of all of us with the graffiti "I love you so much" anyway, they were all three talking to each other and Brody proudly said "That's my momma. That is MY momma. I love my momma." Such a little sweetheart. Love that blonde hair blue eyed boy.
Gracie wished she was in gymnastics the entire time Madi was in her class. I told her next year will be her year. She needs to get a little stronger Orthopedic and Physical Therapy wise before she can safely participate in any type of sport. It's still hard though because I like to be fair and this doesn't seem fair.
Ricky is working days this week. He has a lot of training since receiving his promotion. I really like having him home in the evenings but it works so much better for him to work nights. He was home at 5 tonight and the kids are back on their bedtime at 7:30 routine so he didn't get to see them nearly as much as he does during the day.
I'll update again soon. Being down and out does not sit well with my personality.
KP
All I really know is I am in a lot of pain, not being the best mom right now or wife for that matter, and can't function. I need to get back to normal now.
This morning was Madi's first gymnastics class. She did so well. She is by far the smallest by about 6 inches and doesn't quite understand everything but is giving her best and I am so proud of her. She was super proud to show off her stamp she got on her hand at the end of class and told me she wanted her daddy to watch her gymnastics.
Brody melted my heart this morning. While I was in my bathroom getting ready, they were at my bedside table. I printed off and framed the picture I posted yesterday of all of us with the graffiti "I love you so much" anyway, they were all three talking to each other and Brody proudly said "That's my momma. That is MY momma. I love my momma." Such a little sweetheart. Love that blonde hair blue eyed boy.
Gracie wished she was in gymnastics the entire time Madi was in her class. I told her next year will be her year. She needs to get a little stronger Orthopedic and Physical Therapy wise before she can safely participate in any type of sport. It's still hard though because I like to be fair and this doesn't seem fair.
Ricky is working days this week. He has a lot of training since receiving his promotion. I really like having him home in the evenings but it works so much better for him to work nights. He was home at 5 tonight and the kids are back on their bedtime at 7:30 routine so he didn't get to see them nearly as much as he does during the day.
I'll update again soon. Being down and out does not sit well with my personality.
KP
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